i know it's not my place to tell people what they can and can't ship, but ?? the fact that people ship jasper/lapis, and even peridot/lapis to some extent just makes me super uncomfortable because literally all they've done is abuse, neglect, and abuse lapis to get at the crystal gems and it's honestly so gross ????
people draw the three of them together as if they're some sort of trio, but lapis was never a part of them ?? she was literally only their prisoner. she's not a part of them anymore than she is the crystal gems and a big part of lapis' character is that she puts her own well-being first (at least, until she met steven)
lapis is her own gem and if she's not comfortable among the crystal gems, she wouldn't feel comfortable among this group of assholes, either
Watching: Steven Universe
Drinking: Dr. Pepper